Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive. Attract And Seduce Women Today

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If you do try to abide by any of the above “rules,” aren’t you eliminating a number of options to meet and maybe get involved with a girl who loves cars and can drop an engine, rebuild it, and replace it in three weeks? Won’t you be leaving out the girls who have no money but are potential moneymakers, as they are working two jobs and taking classes at night to become a veterinarian or a geologist?

You get the idea. Following some common advice on how to impress a girl might in fact have the opposite effect: you may offend her when you were trying to intrigue her, make her laugh when you intended to make her swoon, or you may make her scream when you meant to make her giggle or laugh.

So how about this? Try following a few righteous and fair methods that work almost every time.

Be real, and be realistic. If you deliberately lie once, you have just changed everything. You now have to keep track of the lie, never forget it, and know that that lie is what part of your potential relationship is now based on,, if she believes you. One day, if you start dating, she will find out and dump you, or at least be very hurt and have a reason to mistrust you.

If you will be yourself, meaning that it’s okay to be nervous if you are nervous (some girls find that adorable), and clumsy if you are clumsy (some girls find this endearing). Remember that the girl you seek to impress might not be the one for you,…no matter how close a next-door neighbor she is or how many years you all went to the same football games and movies. Look for someone else if you’re just not each other’s type.

Be confident and self-reliant. Don’t think yourself unworthy of every woman who walks into study hall, either. Try to strike a healthy balance between “morose doom” and “nauseating cockiness.” We do not know how to handle either of you, other than to giggle nervously and then run in the other direction as fast as we can.

Be interesting and interested. Cultivate an interest in her hobbies as much as you expect her to develop an interest in yours.

Be as healthy as you can be. Studies show that we are attracted to bodies and faces that represent optimum reproductive abilities and features. Doing whatever you can to achieve this will be very helpful, so take care of yourself. Not everyone can look like Brad Pitt, but you can keep yourself properly groomed, eat a healthy diet, and get in better shape if you’ve been a couch potato.

Be fair. Do not put the girl you’re attracted to on a pedestal or cut her down unfairly. She won’t make love to you constantly. She is also not your mother, so don’t expect her to clean up after you or cook for you whenever you demand it. If you are just meeting her, don’t tell her how much you adore your mother.

Finally, have a positive attitude. You don’t have to fake joy and happiness if your favorite pet just died, but try to see something good in every person you meet. And try to see some good in yourself. Offering a smile and a joke if appropriate can help you bond with her. So can simply saying, “Hello.”

Leng Chun Hung
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When you take her out for a date, notice every little detail at the first glance. Capture the moment to appreciate her wear just to pay for the much trouble she might have gone through. Do not appreciate with your eyes; she is not a mind reader and a guess is less fulfilling than the real word. Say it out in sweet, nice praising words. May be she is dressed to kill and there you are talking about the football match that was. She gives you time to finish your debate but you start another one and another one. Your date is finally over and just before the goodnight kiss after dropping her off. She asks you “was i smart? did i annoy you?”. The truth is the answers will be yes and no but it might be too late. You should be crucified to torture a girl to such extent. Make it a habit to say to a beautiful girl what she expects. Tell her she is smart on a date, brilliant in an engineering class and a good cook at home.

Majority of guys generally do not see the need to say to a beautiful girl about their dreams, past and will rarely touch on their private lives. This is wrong because it implies that you do not consider her appropriate to share your life with. Do not go exposing yourself to every Jane and Mary but be outspoken It is a girl thing to talk about people and especially you. If anything it is more interesting than talking about plants and animals. Share your ambitions and all that you can with her. It makes a difference to a girl to know that she knows her man best. She would not want to hear something about you from a third party. Say it to her even if you are a thief. She will feel privileged to know what others would have to investigate.

On the other hand, do not say everything she wants to hear. Guys rarely disclose their financial status to a girl in fear of being victimized. If they say to a beautiful girl that they are loaded, the role might drastically shift to that one of a financier. When they admit they are financially challenged, they will not easily find love. Keep it up guys! They really want to hear it but keep her guessing and while you are it, the emotional investment will make it hard for her to leave.

FRANCIS K GITHINJI

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1) Don’t crack jokes to the girl, and laugh at them before she does. Wait. You’ll notice that it sometimes takes even 10-15 seconds for a joke to process. But it does. Tease her about it a little : “Oh, slow processing time.. That’s OK, you’re my little sister.. I didn’t adopt you for your brains”. Also, don’t say “right” after everything. It can come across beta. Right?

2) When a girl is trying to impress you, recognize it as her qualifying herself. If you reject it, you’ll come across insecure, or socially unaware. This is different from the early stages of a pick-up where you might want to deliberately misinterpret- or break rapport- with a girl in order to demonstrate higher value and build attraction. At this point you should do the reverse, and positively encourage her to impress you by rewarding her attempts.

3) Recognize when its your turn to talk, and when somebody else is being focused on. Again, after the initial period of the pick-up, where the man usually is responsible for most (up to 90%) of the spoken communication, most successful pick-ups substantially reverse this percentage in the middle to late stages of the game. A girl will develop a connection to a guy whom she has perceived to have won over ; she has invested in him, and will therefore expect later to collect the prize (your dick in her mouth).

4) If a girl tells you about a problem, just listen and change her emotion. Say “Ouch, that’s sounds tough.. But hey, you’re a sassy girl, and you know you’re too feisty to let this stop you.. Let’s check out x,y,z”. Definetely don’t offer advice. If she wants advice, she’ll say “What should I do?” Girls want men to be empathetic to their problems without them trying to take corporate ownership of them.

5) Focus on the vibe and don’t cling to topics. Clinging to topics is another sign of try-hard, or insecurity. Just let the conversation go where it wants to- much of the time the girl will do most of this work, requiring only occasional guidance and prompting from you.

The demonstration of proper social skills during the middle stages of a pick-up should, when added to the initial attraction built, provide a relatively easy transition to the various forms of closure- phone, kiss, or lay.

Richard La Ruina

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Knowing how to get a girl to like you puts you steps ahead over the other guys who are fumbling with their words… or using the same old pick-up lines over and over again.

Fortunately, you never have to resort to corny pick-up lines after you’ve read this article.

1) Be More Sociable.

One effective way on how to get a girl to like you is by being sociable and approachable. Always have a smile ready on your face. Not a fake smile, but a genuinely friendly one. If you’re having difficulty putting on a sincere smile, just think about all the wonderful traits she possesses.

After you’re done rehearsing your smiles, practice the art of conversation. Girls love men who always have something interesting to talk about; but let them do more of the talking. Becoming an effective listener could put you miles ahead of other guys.

2) Be Smart.

Being a “know-it-all” is not a good way on how to get a girl to like you. Being smart is not the same as showing off all your academic diplomas, or sharing your knowledge about the different species of creatures in the sea.  You’ll bore the girl to death.

Being smart, in this case, means having your own opinion and being able to justify it with sensible answers. Having a healthy sense of humor also pushes you three steps forward.

3) Don’t Be A Push Over.

No one wants to hang around with a push over. To know how to get a girl to like you, you have to see yourself as someone who is worthy of her time. Otherwise, why would she waste her time on you?

Don’t cower or lower your head all the time. These are signs of guys who obviously don’t have self-confidence. Stand and sit with a straighter back and talk with your head held up at just the right level. Don’t hold your head up too high because no one enjoys talking with arrogant people either.

Knowing how to get a girl to like you have a lot to do with strengthening qualities you already have. In the long run, following these steps will help you in other areas of your life as well.

Michael Lee

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There are steps in learning how to get a girl to love you again. These steps might be simple to think but can be a little tricky to implement with all the raging and unbalanced emotions you have after the break up. So take control of your feelings and start contemplating the following steps to gather tricks that can help you realize how to get a girl to love you.

Step 1

Answer these questions. What went wrong? Is there a third party involved? Did she do something wrong and unforgivable? Did someone coerce her to break up with you? Have you been good and patient with her? What decisions and actions you’ve done that caused her pain? Are you the jealous type who thinks all of her male friends have a thing for her? Have you taken her for granted? Did you cheat on her? Are you acting cold, both on romantic and sexual way? Did a major event happen that caused her to break things up with you?

You see, the question how to get a girl to love you is just the core of all questions. It has branches and to full realize the worth of your ex-girlfriend and your relationship then you must answer these questions as honestly as possible.

Step 2

Make changes and compromise. If there are things and attitudes in your life that require changes then go for it. Change is good especially if it’s for the betterment of one aspect in your life. Remember though that changing a thing or an attitude can’t be done instantaneously else you’re just fooling yourself. Take everything slowly but surely. You might be one of those people who have aversion in changes so don’t push or force yourself to change right away. Just make an effort to do so to avoid hating your very own self in the end.

Step 3

Don’t push her as well. Girls react pugnaciously when pushed. Give her the space that she also needs and when it’s time to talk to her, be certain not to overreact and make accusations. Make her see that though you’re changing you still have your old qualities that made her fall in love with you in the first place.

John Purden

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