Essential Dating Tips:how to Impress a Girl

There are many articles available on how to impress a girl, and many books as well. But how, really, do you get and keep her attention, and keep her coming back to wonderful you? Do you follow the men’s versions of The Rules, that say you wait x number of times, you avoid a, b, c, and you be sure to always do d, e, and f? Do you follow the special advice on how to impress a girl you are attracted to or who is wealthy? Do you go with the psychology of genders, and follow the generalizations that all girls want Brad Pitt, are on diets, and love to shop?

If you do try to abide by any of the above “rules,” aren’t you eliminating a number of options to meet and maybe get involved with a girl who loves cars and can drop an engine, rebuild it, and replace it in three weeks? Won’t you be leaving out the girls who have no money but are potential moneymakers, as they are working two jobs and taking classes at night to become a veterinarian or a geologist?

You get the idea. Following some common advice on how to impress a girl might in fact have the opposite effect: you may offend her when you were trying to intrigue her, make her laugh when you intended to make her swoon, or you may make her scream when you meant to make her giggle or laugh.

So how about this? Try following a few righteous and fair methods that work almost every time.

Be real, and be realistic. If you deliberately lie once, you have just changed everything. You now have to keep track of the lie, never forget it, and know that that lie is what part of your potential relationship is now based on,, if she believes you. One day, if you start dating, she will find out and dump you, or at least be very hurt and have a reason to mistrust you.

If you will be yourself, meaning that it’s okay to be nervous if you are nervous (some girls find that adorable), and clumsy if you are clumsy (some girls find this endearing). Remember that the girl you seek to impress might not be the one for you,…no matter how close a next-door neighbor she is or how many years you all went to the same football games and movies. Look for someone else if you’re just not each other’s type.

Be confident and self-reliant. Don’t think yourself unworthy of every woman who walks into study hall, either. Try to strike a healthy balance between “morose doom” and “nauseating cockiness.” We do not know how to handle either of you, other than to giggle nervously and then run in the other direction as fast as we can.

Be interesting and interested. Cultivate an interest in her hobbies as much as you expect her to develop an interest in yours.

Be as healthy as you can be. Studies show that we are attracted to bodies and faces that represent optimum reproductive abilities and features. Doing whatever you can to achieve this will be very helpful, so take care of yourself. Not everyone can look like Brad Pitt, but you can keep yourself properly groomed, eat a healthy diet, and get in better shape if you’ve been a couch potato.

Be fair. Do not put the girl you’re attracted to on a pedestal or cut her down unfairly. She won’t make love to you constantly. She is also not your mother, so don’t expect her to clean up after you or cook for you whenever you demand it. If you are just meeting her, don’t tell her how much you adore your mother.

Finally, have a positive attitude. You don’t have to fake joy and happiness if your favorite pet just died, but try to see something good in every person you meet. And try to see some good in yourself. Offering a smile and a joke if appropriate can help you bond with her. So can simply saying, “Hello.”

Leng Chun Hung
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What to Avoid and What to Say to a Beautiful Girl

There is so much which is not said to girls yet they badly want to hear it from their men. No one is to blame because guys do not know it. I thought of it when as a girl, i got tired of asking questions. He failed miserably to meet my expectations till i felt i had to do something about it. I want to shed some light on what to say to a beautiful girl. I am hoping i will make you one of the special guys around. You can imagine the amount of anticipation a girl is subjected to before she decides to put it in a question. She will be looking at you like you are the first dense head at your age.

When you take her out for a date, notice every little detail at the first glance. Capture the moment to appreciate her wear just to pay for the much trouble she might have gone through. Do not appreciate with your eyes; she is not a mind reader and a guess is less fulfilling than the real word. Say it out in sweet, nice praising words. May be she is dressed to kill and there you are talking about the football match that was. She gives you time to finish your debate but you start another one and another one. Your date is finally over and just before the goodnight kiss after dropping her off. She asks you “was i smart? did i annoy you?”. The truth is the answers will be yes and no but it might be too late. You should be crucified to torture a girl to such extent. Make it a habit to say to a beautiful girl what she expects. Tell her she is smart on a date, brilliant in an engineering class and a good cook at home.

Majority of guys generally do not see the need to say to a beautiful girl about their dreams, past and will rarely touch on their private lives. This is wrong because it implies that you do not consider her appropriate to share your life with. Do not go exposing yourself to every Jane and Mary but be outspoken It is a girl thing to talk about people and especially you. If anything it is more interesting than talking about plants and animals. Share your ambitions and all that you can with her. It makes a difference to a girl to know that she knows her man best. She would not want to hear something about you from a third party. Say it to her even if you are a thief. She will feel privileged to know what others would have to investigate.

On the other hand, do not say everything she wants to hear. Guys rarely disclose their financial status to a girl in fear of being victimized. If they say to a beautiful girl that they are loaded, the role might drastically shift to that one of a financier. When they admit they are financially challenged, they will not easily find love. Keep it up guys! They really want to hear it but keep her guessing and while you are it, the emotional investment will make it hard for her to leave.

FRANCIS K GITHINJI
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